Today would have been my Aunt Frances’ 100th
Birthday. To write just a little about
my Aunt Frances is like trying to write just a little about my Mom! There’s just too much to tell in a single
page. So I’ve highlighted just a few
special things … like the many visits we used to make when she & my Uncle
Everett lived in Fort Lauderdale, Florida.
Nancy with Aumt Frances |
Whenever we’d visit, Frances & Everett always had the
most wonderful things planned for us.
Breakfasts at the beach, shopping in Miami Beach, cook-outs and trips to
three of our favorite places: The
Seaquarium (where we even got to see the real Flipper!), The Sepentarian (where
we got to see Bill Haast handle the big cobras!) and Silver Springs (when we’d
all go when Frances & Everett came up to visit Papaw & Mamaw).
Frances & Everett’s home was so elegant and
beautiful, with a gorgeous patio and grill.
Linda and I always got to sleep out in the Florida room, and we loved
that. And I think I’ve logged in
hundreds of hours just standing in front of Frances’ “picture wall” and looking
at all our family photos.
In 1978, I flew to Florida to spend three weeks with
Frances and Everett. The trip turned out
to be more than I could have ever dreamed for … they chartered a plane and took
me to Nassau!!! What an exciting time we
had! We saw things on the back roads
that normal tourists probably never get to experience. On the same trip, they took me to Disney
World, Lion Country Safari and the Winter home on the Ringling Brothers Circus. I will never forget doing all those wonderful
things with them.
When Frances & Everett moved to Ohio in 1979, we
began a tradition that has continued all the remaining years of their lives –
Thanksgiving at their home in Loveland each year. I look forward to that about as much as
Christmas! There was always so much wonderful
food, and it was a time when we can all just lazily sit around together. We usually get out old photos and look at
them, and share old memories. How much
we miss Francis and Everett at this and EVERY event!
Everett & Frances on a date in 1928. |
The greatest thing Aunt Frances gave to us was when she
married Uncle Everett. They were married
in 1929 when he was was 23 and she was just 14 years old! But my Grandparents must have sensed what a
wonderful man he was, one who could always take care of their daughter, which
he did for their 70 years of marriage! There was only ONE Uncle Everett -- and I adored him!
Uncle Everett & Aunt Frances on their Weddng Day -- July 3, 1929 |
I may look like my Aunt Kay, but I’m a lot like my Aunt
Frances, too. Family means so much to
both of us. We appreciated things that
belonged to family members – not valuable things, but the sentimental
things. And we both felt very blessed to
be in the family we were in.
When Frances passed away, she had already signed her home, a threestory home called The Rookery in Loveland, Ohio over to me, so that in reality the last year of her life she
was living with Steve & me. A lot of
my cousins still hate me over that, but getting that house was what enabled us
to sell and move to Florida, which ultimately saved my life because that’s
where I was diagnosed with end-stage kidney failure and put on dialysis. So thank you Aunt Frances for always making
my life so happy and for helping to save my life. I love you!
XO
For every occasion, Aunt Frances made her Chicken &
Dumplings. They sat right next to the
turkey on Thanksgiving and the ham at Christmas. They are loved by everyone and a source of
great comfort, just like Aunt Frances herself.
So I can’t think of anything better to past for her Centennial Birthday
today!
Chicken ‘n Dumplings
Chicken and Broth:
3 quarts Water
1 3-4 pound Chicken, cut
up
1-1/2 teaspoons Salt
1 small Onion, sliced
2 stalks Celery,
chopped
1 clove Garlic, peeled
and quartered
1 Bay Leaf
4-6 whole Parsley
Leaves
1 teaspoon coarsely
ground Black Pepper
1 tablespoon Lemon
Juice
Dumplings:
2 cups All-Purpose Flour
1 tablespoon Baking Powder
1-1/4 teaspoons of Salt
1 cup plus 2 tablespoons Milk
I have been thinking about Frances all day---couldn't wait to see your blog!! I KNOW (!) that Frances & Everett loved you as much as if you had been their daughter. In many ways, you were a daughter to them. You were always there for them---birthdays, anniversaries, holidays etc. And ALL through the year. You were Everett's "pride & joy"---I can still see him carrying you around and also you wearing his "hardhat" and sitting in his big van!! I know (I've heard her say it many times) that Frances appreciated that you loved Everett so much and he loved you. After Daddy's death, he became a father to you. When Everett felt unloved or neglected by others (even in his death), YOU were always there for him. Frances & Everett had a true love story and while they may have never had a child BORN to them, you were their child in their hearts. Frances & Everett were the perfect hosts---in their Ft. Lauderdale home and in their Loveland, Ohio home. We spent every Thanksgiving with them and they spent every Christmas with us! Even when they lived in Ft. Lauderdale, they spent almost the whole summer with us. They were a special aunt and uncle and no-one was happier than me when they gave you their Loveland home. You deserved it because of all the love and joy you brought to their lives and they brought to yours. Thank you, Nancy, for remembering Frances' birthday in such a beautiful way---she was and would continue to be so proud of you!
ReplyDeleteI'm going to try every one of these recipes. I'd "lost" you on my high-tech new computer for awhile, but so glad to have you back, in every sense of the word/prayers.
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